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Anal Sex Tips: Part 1

Anal Sex Tips: Part 1

For some it is still taboo. For others, it is an everyday part of fantastic sex. Anal sex is a polarizing sexual subject - you either love it or hate it. Chances are, if you love it you have gotten over some of the difficulties often associated with bum lovin'. If you hate it, you've likely had a bad experience or can't get your mind past inaccurate stigma.

While it has certainly been a fun way to play forever, anal sex shot to mainstream prominence with the explosion of porn in the 90s. Everybody was experimenting with ass sex! Unfortunately, too many were emulating unrealistic portrayals in porn resulting in sore bums and sore feelings.

However, if you're interested in getting off through the backdoor, here are some tips to help you enjoy a hot anal adventure.

 

Use plenty of lube

The first thing you always need to know, always need to remember and always need to have on hand is anal lube. Did you work some lube on and in your partner's ass? Did you slather your fingers, cock or anal toy? Do it again and use more!

Seriously, there is no such thing as too much lube when it comes to anal sex. Sure, it can be a little messy, but it is essential to use - and continue to apply - a lot of lube during anal sex. Drying out can lead to significant irritation and potential pain.

And a great way to have fun and experiment with anal sex is to try out the many lubes that are out there. Depending on your situation, you will want either a silicone lube or water-based lube. Lube also comes in various consistencies. Generally, thicker lube will last longer for butt lovin'.

 

Slow down and take your time

Another key to anal sex is to slow it down and take your time. Sure, you're all hot and ready to go, but both of you need to take your time and enjoy the many new sensations - both great and those that might not work for you. If you go too fast, there is potential for pain and possible injury. Taking your time and openly communicating will ensure the experience is positive for both.

A great way to slow things down is to start off with a sensual massage. The receptive partner can lay flat on their back and be put into a relaxed, almost trance like state. Rub your hands up and down their body, feeling all of it and reassuring your partner how every inch of them is beautiful. Compliments make someone feel good and open their reactions. As you touch all parts, move closer and closer to their buttocks, eventually starting to spread and expose their anus.

Once you get to this point, it will be even harder to hold back, but the ass needs time and attention before you get right in there. Lick and finger your partner's pucker gently. Slowly slip more and more of your finger inside, all the while spreading and stretching. It takes time for the ass to open and get used to penetration - even if it is just your pinkie! Once you and your partner reach the horny hot spot, reach for that lube and get ready for the ride of your lives!

Want more? Check out Anal Sex Tips: Part 2.

About Jon Pressick
Jon Pressick

Jon Pressick is the sex community's international gadabout and Cherry Banana's writer in residence. An award-winning sex writer and blogger, Jon is the editor of the critically-acclaimed Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1. He is a frequent contributor to Cherry Banana with a range of sex-related content and his writing has appeared in numerous magazines and books, as well as all across the Internet. Jon is also a co-host and producer of the long-running sex radio show Sex City. You can keep up with his many sex-related articles here at Cherry Banana or at his own blog, Sex in Words.

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