Anal Sex Tips: Part 3

Now, you've read Anal Sex Tips: Part 1 and Anal Sex Tips: Part 2, and this is what you’ve been waiting for, the main anal course. If you have followed the suggestions laid out in first two parts of this guide to anal sex, you and your partner are sure to be hot and ready for more. And that more is full-on, all-lubed, hard and ready anal sex.

It shouldn’t be hard to imagine that inserting your penis into, or having one enter your asshole is going to be a completely new experience. Sure, you touched, licked and finger-fucked but a cock is going to stretch to your most delicious lengths.

Use plenty of lube

There are many different positions that optimize the erotic potential of anal sex, but when you are first starting out, one in particular - person on top - will make the experience successful and sexy. The reason this type of entry works so well is that the person being penetrated has all of the control over the speed and depth of insertion. They can take their time, hovering over and slowly allowing the penis to slip in. Remember, you’ve both got lube slathered over your sensitive bits, so if the person on top is ready and relaxed, the cock should start to make its way into the anus.

Now, where you might run into trouble is with the head of the cock. Generally, the head is the biggest part of the penis, wider than the shaft. Get past the head and you are home free and horny. Sometimes you will really have to concentrate to get the head inside. If anything is going to cause discomfort, this is the time. If need be, back off the cock and take a break. Gently ease back onto it. Pulling away can allow the body to get more used to the feelings, and re-engaging is often easier. With a little perseverance, you’ll get past this toughest part.

And there you are! The cockhead has popped into your bum and you’re getting used to the sensation. It is not unusual to have a moment of discomfort, but you will find that it passes fairly quickly. Now, you can slide down on the shaft and you are realizing the fantasy of getting fucked in the ass!

Try different positions

Once you’ve accustomed your body to the sensations, you can remain in this position for some hot riding action, or you can switch to another. The classic position associated with anal sex is doggy style. And it does feel damn good - both taking and receiving. Missionary is another fantastic way to get it on anal style. It allows for intimate looks and kisses as well as additional stimulation of the vulva, clitoris or penis of the person being penetrated.

Talk about the cumshot beforehand

There’s one last thing the two of you hopefully discussed: the cumshot. If you’re using a condom, which is highly advised, then this is not so much of a concern. However, if you are involved with a person you are fluid-bonded with or confident in their health, you might be fucking them bareback. If so, do they want to take your orgasm in their ass or would they rather you pull out? Some people can actually feel cum in their bum... and some people don’t like it. Be sure to have this talk beforehand.

And there you go! Are you hot and ready for some bum-lovin’?