Articles from April 2017

On the weekends, I love a great big brunch of bacon, fried eggs and hash, some toast, coffee and some nice fresh fruit. Taking some time for this kind of breakfast bliss is one small way I enjoy some time away from the pressures of life. Of course, given my chosen and adored line of work here, I like to use another technique to remove myself fro...

Imagine that moment in time when you and your partner lock eyes and know exactly what you need. “Right here, right now” you speak to each other in a silent expression of complete and utter sexual desire. You move together, you rip off clothes, your bodies join in an ecstatic coupling of raw sex. This is how most of us picture a quickie. A qu...

It is hard to believe that vibrators were once a taboo device—especially given their history. There aren’t many devices that were developed as legitimate medical instruments that make their way into mainstream culture, with that unfortunate pitstop in social purgatory. But vibrators have come a long way! Many people now own these sexy tools ...

It is sad when relationships that were strong, loving and sexy fall away from these great feelings. One of the main culprits in this relationship challenge is a loss of intimacy. There are many different reasons why this can happen, including stress, financial challenges, kids and so much more. But another sometimes overlooked cause of lagging clos...

I will readily admit a bias: I do not understand the Western world’s obsession with removing body hair. I have this bias because I actually like hair on my partners. The look, the feel. Maybe you can call me old fashioned because of this. Like, really old fashioned. But actually, not old fashioned at all! The rampant removal of body hair—gen...

One of the most hot and steamy types of sex often depicted in movies and on television is, literally, hot and steamy! And rightfully so! Getting with your partner under the warm, rushing current of a shower can be one of the most intimate and sexy things you can do. Shower sex is presented all the time for a reason - it looks amazing! However, a...

People have been “using” outfits, products, lotions, potions and pretty much everything else in the world to further develop sex and sexual sensation forever. If there is a way to enhance and further the enjoyment of sexytimes, we, as a species, will figure it out and make it happen. We’ll wear it, lick it, swallow it, drink it, snort it, smo...

Q: My girlfriend and I have awesome, fulfilling hot-as-can be sex. No complaints there at all. Unfortunately, the problem is that all of my roommates, my neighbours and even some random people on the street know how amazing our sex is because she is so damn loud when we do it! I was with a few women in the past who had sex like we were in silent mo...

When it comes to sex, we want our desires to be crystal clear. We want to be able to see every aspect and shatter ideas that do not conform to our needs. Sometimes we find ourselves on the outside looking in and sometimes we are the ones being admired sneakily from afar. Sex can truly be a window to much pleasure and fun...so why not explore it wit...

There is a time in almost everybody’s life where you discover sex, realize how much you love sex and then want to have sex all of the time. You dream of finding the right person or people who just want to bang and lick and suck and fuck every damn day. More than every day, multiple times! Sex is awesome! And then...the world happens. Life happ...

Let’s just get something out of the way, right off the bat. Nobody can be horny all the time. Nobody can want sex every single day. Sure, some might want it a lot...but an impossible standard of sexual excitation has been established that is not reasonable. Too many people fear they are not measuring up because their libido is not constantly ragi...

One of the most common abilities on sexual wishlists is the desire for sex to last longer. Everybody wants those amazing feelings to continue for as long as possible, but once some hot and heavy action starts, it can be irresistible to stop the flood of sexy sensation. And then it is done and your body comes down and you usually have to wait a whil...