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Standing Ovation For Handjobs

Standing Ovation For Handjobs

It may look like the simplest, easiest type of sex that always gets results, but there is more to handjobs than meets the palm. Sure, if there’s a hint of potential sex in the air many people’s penis will pop up and say “Hi, nice to meet you.” But that doesn’t mean there isn’t the potential for great pleasure and differing sensations. Handjobs can be exquisitely hot and a fantastic way to orgasm.

Everybody’s penis is different, and how a person likes their penis touched can be entirely different from everyone else you’ve ever been with. Sure, there’s the basic stroking action that will probably get most people off. But different manipulations such as fast and slow strokes, light or tight grips, lube or no lube will take your handjobs from good to awesome!

Give these tips a try for how to get a (cock) standing ovation for a great handjob.

Take it slow

Just because your partner is hard and ready, don’t pull those shorts down right away. Take you time and massage that penis through the material. Run your hands up and down the shaft and balls and give little squeezes. Watch that cock jump and twitch through the material. It is far too easy to fall into the standard motions of sex with a penis, but drawing it out brings huge amounts of pleasure to your partner.

Ask what to do

Everybody likes different things done to their dicks, and there’s no way you can possibly know exactly what someone wants. The easiest way to find out? Take your partner’s penis in hand and ask what they like. Some people are shy in replying, so try things and offer a “this or that” scenario. “Do you like it fast or slow? Do you like the tip rubbed or squeezed? Do you like me touching your balls or not?” A call and response will show you just what your partner loves to feel.

Speaking of balls…

Some people like their balls played with and others do not. Some like their balls touched roughly while others like them gently caressed. Because testicle touch is a completely unique thing, this is definitely something to ask about.

To lube or not to lube

Using lube for handjobs is also hit or miss for lots of people. Some love it and some would rather the feel of their skin being pressed up and down their cock. Each method has its pros and cons. When using lube for handjobs, the slickness can feel amazing gliding up and down the penis. The con can be that you have to continue applying lube or certain types will get sticky or tacky and feel unpleasant for your partner. Not using lube means the skin of your partner’s cock will be moving up and down the shaft, which is an entirely different and potentially awesome feeling. However, if your handjob takes a long time, there is the potential for skin chafing.

Mix it up!

You might be surprised, but both of your hands and arm motions will feel different. To prolong the sexy sensations and create an edging sensation, switch back and forth throughout the handjob. You’ll see your partner writhe in pleasure! But, once you get to the point of your partner cumming, stick with one hand through that experience.

Now, raise your hand if you’re ready for hot handjob action!

About Jon Pressick
Jon Pressick

Jon Pressick is the sex community's international gadabout and Cherry Banana's writer in residence. An award-winning sex writer and blogger, Jon is the editor of the critically-acclaimed Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1. He is a frequent contributor to Cherry Banana with a range of sex-related content and his writing has appeared in numerous magazines and books, as well as all across the Internet. Jon is also a co-host and producer of the long-running sex radio show Sex City. You can keep up with his many sex-related articles here at Cherry Banana or at his own blog, Sex in Words.

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