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Guide to Clitoral Vibrators

Some say the way to a man's heart is his stomach. We beg to differ and would suggest another part. However, we definitely know that if you want to win over a woman you need to know how to please her clitoris.

If you're not already familiar, the clitoris is the very sensitive nub located at the top of the vulva. Varying in size, it also engorges with blood and increases in size as she becomes more aroused. It is very tender and responsive to licking, stroking and friction of any sort.

The clitoris also loves attention from vibrators! Luckily, we offer a variety of unique and interesting clitoral vibrators that are sure to keep your lady sexually satisfied.

What is a clitoral vibrator?

Clitoral VibratorsClitoral vibrators come in a variety of shapes, sizes, colours, textures and materials to cater for any need. Their main purpose is to tease and tantalise the clitoris, releasing waves and waves of uncontrollable pleasure with their vibrating abilities.

Because there are so many different types of clitoral vibrators, how you use them will really depend on your situation and desires. They've been called the most dependable way for a woman to reach orgasm, so they are very popular as a masturbatory aid. So much so they've been referred to as a woman's best friend (you can forget diamonds)!

This has actually lead to some irrational fears about vibrator use. Some people worry that using a vibrator too much, or over a prolonged period of time will result in her clitoris becoming numb or desensitized. Fortunately, there is no proof of this happening and people should definitely relax and enjoy the wild sensations a vibe can produce.

There is actually another silly fear out there: that if she is a woman who enjoys men, then a vibrator might turn her off enjoying what he has to offer. It is possible she might lose interest, but it won't be the toy's fault. Lay that blame solely on his technique! Besides, a clitoral vibrator is the perfect addition to sex and can increase pleasure for both you and your partner.

One of the best ways a fella can impress his lady? Learn to compliment her vibrator use with other moves. While she enjoys the brilliant buzz of the clitoral vibe, he can caress her breasts, lick her vagina, tease her anus and countless other things she enjoys.

Many clitoral vibrators are also a perfect addition to love making. Depending on the position, either he or she can hold the sex toy in place while he plunges his penis in and out of her. Two of the best positions for dual vibe and sexy time action are her on top and doggy style. With each of these, she can reach and caress her love button with the clitoral vibe while being filled at the same time.

Tips for using your clitoral vibrator

Every woman has different preferences when it comes to touching her clitoris. And remember this can change from day to day! Here are some tips and suggestions to give maximum pleasure possibilities with a clitoral vibrator.

1. Lubricant

As in most cases with sex, lube makes the experience better for her. Sure it can be hot sometimes to move in and touch right away, but generally the clitoris is too sensitive for that with a vibe. Before applying the toy to her hot spot, touch her with her own wetness or, if there is some urgency to your desires, apply some silicone lubricant or water­-based lubricant. This will make the vibrator's sensations more comfortable and slightly less intense.

2. Indirect stimulation

Some women prefer a less specific stimulation of their clits. Instead of focusing the vibrator directly on the tip or shaft of the clitoris, a better approach is to move slightly up or to the side. The clitoris is covered by a hood of skin that can be pulled back to reveal truly sensitive tissue. Stimulating that hood with the clitoral vibrator can be just right and hot for some.

3. Direct stimulation

While some aren't keen on intense play, others are all about the direct approach. As previously noted, a slicked up clit is ready to receive so much pleasure, and if she is into it, a vibrator can be used directly on her special spot. She may want you to move around, perhaps in a circular or up and down motion. Or she might just want it held still and steady and always ready. Either way, you'll see and feel her body react and you can use that as a guide of her enjoyment.

How can I buy a clitoral vibrator?

Does the thought of clitoral stimulation turn you on? It should. If you're ready to purchase your own clitoral vibrator and start enjoying new pleasures in the bedroom (or anywhere else you desire), you can browse our range at the following link: Buy a Clitoral Vibrator.

Need more help?

Need a little help before purchasing your clitoral vibe? You can Contact Customer Care and a staff member from the Cherry Banana team can help you find the perfect vibe so you can enjoy clitoral pleasures like never before.

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