How To Introduce Strap-On Play Into Your Relationship
There are many things in life that can offer new and exciting things on a regular basis. Think travel, new foods and continuing a new education. You can always challenge yourself and learn new information and experiences to further enrich your life. Of course, another amazing way to introduce new pleasures into your life is to explore the wide world of sex!
There are so many diverse ways to spice up your sex life, with so many toys available at your fingertips to help. There are toys to vibrate, squeeze and massage in every possible way. And there are definitely toys to explore you or your partner from inside and out!
Strap-ons offer a fantastic opportunity to explore many different and exciting aspects of sexuality. Whether you’re a man or a woman, whether you want to wear the strap-on or receive the toy's pleasure, bringing a strap-on into your bedroom can expand your pleasures in mindblowing ways.
However, strap-ons aren’t a simple sex toy when it comes to introducing one to your partner. Regardless of whether you’re a man or a woman and whomever you happen to play with, there are significant, ingrained societal beliefs and psychological barriers that need to be overcome before you and your partner can get down to some sexy strap-on fun.
Hopefully, the two of you are nothing but excited about the possibility. Hopefully she’s excited by the idea of being the person who thrusts and penetrates. Hopefully he is turned on by the potential of being anally penetrated. And if her partner is another woman, hopefully she is hot for the idea of penetration! Hopefully!
Getting past stigma
Unfortunately, there are issues to consider. Many men are conditioned to believe they should not enjoy anal stimulation. They fear it will turn them gay. Fortunately, guys are starting to realize that there is a lot of pleasure to be had in their bums and that enjoying that fun will have no bearing on their sexual orientation. For some lesbians, there is no desire to play with a penis or penis-shaped toy. This makes a lot of sense, given their orientation, and this is why there are many different strap-on dildos that provide great sensation while not being phallic-shaped.
So, regardless of who you are, how do you bring up the idea of introducing a strap-on into your relationship? Given the above concerns, this can be tricky. The key is good and clear communication with your partner. You can bring up the idea in various ways, but when you talk about it, listen to your partner’s thoughts and potential concerns and respect what they have to say. If they have fears about their sexuality, whether or not they will enjoy the toy or other thoughts, make sure you consider and address them with care and tenderness.
If you aren’t already ordering your new strap-on, and need to do more “research” to consider this fascinating new sexual adventure, take a look at some porn! There are numerous hot and sexy films and clips out there that really show off just how pleasurable strap-on sex can be - in any configuration you can imagine. You can witness attractive men and women enjoying their own strap-on to unbelievable orgasms.
Which strap-on is right for us?
Now that you’ve discussed, and you’re ready to buy, check out the wide range of strap-ons available! So many different styles, shapes, colours and sizes - really, there is something for everyone! There are two keys to remember when picking your toys: look for a harness that fits well and works well with the shape of the wearer’s body and ensure the dildo you pick to use with the harness has an adequate base so that it does not slip back through the harness when you’re using it. And if you’re a beginner to dildo play, start small and work up to bigger dildos later. That is one of the great things about strap-ons - you can change things up whenever you want!
Strap-ons are truly one of the most versatile sex toys you’ll ever try! They offer so much opportunity to try new things. Have fun!
How can I buy a strap-on?
No matter if you want to be the one giving or receiving, strap-on play offers many benefits and pleasures to your sex life. If you want to find a sexy strap-on to play with, just head on over to our category: Buy Strap-Ons.
Need more help?
Not quite sure if a strap-on is right for you for you and need a little more help? Just Contact Customer Care and a staff member from the Cherry Banana team will be in touch right away to assist you. Alternatively, you can explore our other sex toy guides here.
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