Strap-On Play: It's For Men Too
The popular image of people using a strap-on during sex is two women enjoying this wonderful add-on for hot intercourse action. Strap-ons have become a staple of lesbian-themed porn and, of course, that can be ridiculously hot! The sight of one woman penetrating another is sexy as hell.
But what many don’t even realize is that men can absolutely enjoy the pleasure of being penetrated by their partner with a strap-on dildo as well!
Before we can really get into the incredible sensations both the man who is receiving and the woman who is giving can experience, we need to dispel a few things first. No, enjoying anal pleasure does not turn you into a gay man and when it is done right, anal penetration does not hurt. Guys are conditioned to think that receiving anal touch is going to somehow change their sexual orientation - even if it is a woman touching them! This can make them tense and uncomfortable, which will only increase the likelihood their anal fun will be an unpleasant experience.
Why you should try strap-on sex (Pegging)
So, let’s relax on those ideas and open our minds to just how amazing getting pegged with a strap-on is. Pegging is the term for being anally penetrated by a woman wearing a strap-on. This act has actually been performed for a very long time, however, it is only in the past thirty years, as sex toys have advanced, that the practice has become more and more popular. Now, with such great toys and harnesses, there are so many options and toys to explore that anyone can order just what they need to have fun.
Many men are concerned that anal penetration will hurt and many also do not know that anal sex is extremely pleasurable. What they soon learn, if they’re willing to try, is that once you get a toy inside of you, it will touch so many different sensitive spots, including one of the hottest of all, the prostate! A dildo sliding in and out, through your partner’s thrusts, will rub the prostate over and over sending shockwaves of erotic ecstasy throughout your body!
Another enjoyable aspect of strap-on sexiness is simply the sensation of being filled. Women have long known how hot it is to have a penis inside them to enjoy that particular feeling and thrill. Men’s anal passages are also filled with sensitive nerve endings that respond quite favourably to stimulation. Sliding that faux phallus in and out will drive him wild!
Not just for him!
Something else to keep in mind is that it won’t only be the fella getting pleasure from this activity. Women can definitely enjoy penetrating their men! There is a hugely influential psychological factor to being the person doing the penetrating that is probably so deeply rooted in men’s psyche’s as to be subconscious. Women, on the other hand, have rarely had this opportunity to feel this sensation and doing and watching their guy feeling so damn good can provide a completely new thrill!
If you are curious about bringing a strap-on into your relationship, whether you’re a man or woman, take a read of our guide on How To Introduce Strap-On Play Into Your Relationship, which can help you introduce the idea. On the other hand, if you’re ready to go, be sure to have some lube on hand and had have a great time!
How can I buy a strap-on?
No matter if you want to be the one giving or receiving, strap-on play offers many benefits and pleasures to your sex life. If you want to find a sexy strap-on to play with, just head on over to our category: Buy Strap-Ons.
Need more help?
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