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The Hidden Gem: Prostate Stimulation

The Hidden Gem: Prostate Stimulation

There is a hidden treasure of sexual fun that not everybody knows about—not even the people who have one inside their bodies! Indeed, there is a little, walnut-sized organ that is a little tricky to get to, but trust, if you make the journey, you will find pleasure like you’ve never known before. And that special thrill is prostate pleasure!

The prostate is an essential part of men’s sexual anatomy, but many folks don’t know that stimulating it can bring on tremendous feelings. The thing is, it can be a little hard to get to. The best way to stimulate the prostate is through anal penetration. In much the same configuration as the G-spot, if someone inserts a finger into your bum, curls it up toward your belly and strokes the somewhat ridged-feeling spot about one finger-length in, they will find your hot spot. Even if you’re a little unsure about having something in your ass, after you experience this amazing feeling, you just might be singing a different tune.

Hit that spot

There are different ways to stimulate the prostate, with fingers being the most accessible. Prostates can also receive amazing attention with dildos and penises. However, with rigid, straight toys, you have to get just the right angle to make the stimulation possible. Which is why there are now a wide variety of specific prostate stimulators that feature the perfect bend to get at your pleasure centre.

There are two main considerations when it comes to picking the best type of prostate stimulator for you: size and vibration.

Size: There are still a lot of fellas out there who aren’t sure or outright dismiss the idea of anal penetration. Hey, that’s their choice. But this choice greatly limits their erotic potential. However, if you are curious about ass fun, and in particular, stimulating the prostate, then your need to think about the size of the toy you want. Most prostate toys have bigger leading ends and a smaller base. This allows the anus to close comfortably around the base and hold it tight. As you contract your anal muscles, the toy is rubbed across your prostate. If you’re new or not familiar with anal toys, it is important to not get a toy that is too big. Yes, if you follow our many anal guides, you’ll learn to enjoy anal pleasure without any pain...but that’s not to say it can’t hurt. Work yourself up to bigger toys.

Vibration: The other consideration is whether you want your prostate stimulator to vibrator or not! There are many hot prostate stimulators that don’t vibrate and many that do! Whether you want that type of sensation in your ass is entirely personal preference. Vibration can be an intense sensation, especially in a very sensitive spot. That makes a non-vibrating prostate toy perfect for you. You can control them with hands or by squeezing your PC muscles.

On the other hand, a vibrating prostate stimulator is more of a “put it in and let it go” sort of toy! Vibrating prostate stimulators sit right against the prostate providing continual pleasure. Many vibes also have an extended outer portion that sits against the perineum. While it is not as intense, the prostate can be somewhat stimulated through the perineum. This dual sensation can be mindblowing!

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About Jon Pressick
Jon Pressick

Jon Pressick is the sex community's international gadabout and Cherry Banana's writer in residence. An award-winning sex writer and blogger, Jon is the editor of the critically-acclaimed Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1. He is a frequent contributor to Cherry Banana with a range of sex-related content and his writing has appeared in numerous magazines and books, as well as all across the Internet. Jon is also a co-host and producer of the long-running sex radio show Sex City. You can keep up with his many sex-related articles here at Cherry Banana or at his own blog, Sex in Words.

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