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Guide to Beginner's Strap-Ons

Everybody’s got to start somewhere, right? Think about it: nobody drives a Formula-1 racecar without first taking some spins in something like a 2-door hatchback. Becoming comfortable and gaining experience are important hallmarks for pleasure. If you take the time and have the patience, new levels of enjoyment and satisfaction will unfold in your journey.

This is a particularly important lesson when it comes to sex. We may get all hot and bothered and excited to try something new - but that doesn’t mean we have to rush into using new toys. In some sexytime activities, it is key to take things slow and ensure everybody involved is completely comfortable with the new apparatus being used. With the emergence of strap-on play, this sentiment is echoed loudly, making it key you start off with a beginner strap-on.

 

What is a beginner’s strap-on?

Looking to try something new in the bedroom? Eager to expand your and your partner’s sexual horizons? When these questions are asked, they usually mean bringing new ideas into the sexy equation. However, if you really want to experience something new and exciting, consider literally adding something new - like a beginner’s strap-on!

Available in a wide array of shapes, styles and materials, these unique and wonderful toys are a great addition to your pleasure chest. Though there are many different models to explore, the most common and easiest to use beginner’s strap-ons combine a secure and sexy harness with a delightful dildo. Beginner strap-ons are worn by women to penetrate other women and men! She can experience all of the thrills of taking someone else and being completely in charge of the sexy action. Her partner then has the opportunity to feel her hard cock for amazing thrill and wild orgasms.

 

Why should you use a beginner strap-on?

Beginner’s strap-ons are perfect for everyone who is interested in trying strap-on sex but who don’t necessarily have the experience necessary to make the experience as hot and sexy as it can be. Whether you’re going to be penetrating someone’s vagina or anus, it is important to start out with a strap-on that is comfortable for both of you. If you’re wearing the harness, it should fit securely around your body securing the dildo in place. If you’re going to be on the receiving end of sexy fun, the toy should be the right size and not too big. It is easy to get too ambitious when it comes to strap-ons and that might diminish your and your partner’s enjoyment.

 

What size beginner’s strap-on should I use?

If you’re completely new to strap-on sex, whether giving or taking, it is strongly advised you choose a combination that is not too large or intimidating - particularly if you plan to have some strap-on fun with a man who is not used to anal penetration. Start off with something small, not much bigger than a finger. This will help your partner ease into the feel of penetration before you jump right up and jump on your partner.

 

What functions do beginner’s strap-ons have?

Beginner’s strap-ons can come with a number of functions, including a variety or unique shapes. Women will enjoy some strap-on action when the dildo is shaped to reach her G-spot - as well as the thrill of thrusting. Another great feeling can be produced by vibrating strap-ons! The vibes can be felt throughout both partner’s bodies for entirely new additional thrills.

 

How to use a strap-on for the first time?

Whether you’re planning to use your new strap-on with a woman or a man, it is strongly recommended you begin the experience with plenty of lube and warm-up play. Make sure your partner is not only prepared but turned on to the point of begging for your cock! Use your fingers to open their body up, spreading the lube all over. This might not be quite as necessary if you’re penetrating a woman, her excitement will lead the way. However, lube is essential if you want to slide your new beginner’s strap-on into a bum.

Once you’re both ready, willing and able, it is time to slip your new strap-on over your hips. Secure it firmly in place - and play with it a little! Dildos are fun to play with and there is nothing that says your partner can’t give you a sexy blowjob before the heavy sex begins! This will definitely turn both of you on.

When it is time to move beyond fun and games, get your partner into the position you want them in! You’re in charge here. If you are completely new to strap-on penetration, try laying on your back and having your partner ride you. They will be able to control the speed and depth of penetration, ensuring that the new sensations aren’t too much, too soon. Be sure to take your time, even if you took a long time warming your partner up.

Once the two of you are more comfortable with the multitude of fantastic sensations, you can move to other positions such as doggie style, missionary, reverse cowgirl and more!

 

I want something a little bigger, what next?

One of the greatest things about strap-ons is that they are so versatile! If you try one out, love it, but feel you need something more, many harnesses can accommodate your favourite dildo! Some harnesses have clips or other devices to attach the dildo to the harness. Others simply have a hole in the front part of the harness that the dildo slides through. More variety is the spice of life!

 

How can I buy a beginner's strap-on?

No matter if you want to be the one giving or receiving, strap on play offers many benefits and pleasures to your sex life. If you want to find a sexy beginner's strap-on to play with, just head on over to our category: Buy Beginner's Strap-Ons.

 

 

Need more help?

Not quite sure which beginner's strap-on is right for you for you and need a little more help? Just Contact Customer Care and a staff member from the Cherry Banana team will be in touch right away to assist you. Alternatively, you can explore our other sex toy guides here.

 

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