Articles from August 2017

When people think about sex, the first space they envision is the bedroom. From early on, we are taught that sex happens in a bed, under covers, in the dark. But that is starting to change. Now, this isn’t to say that there is anything wrong with having most or even all of your sex in the bedroom—not at all! Rather, instead of falling into t...

Q: I recently met the man of my dreams. He is successful, funny, smart and super sexy. We met at a club because some of his friends knew some of mine. But nobody was really close enough to really know that much about him (or to tell him that much about me). And so you know, I am in my mid-twenties, moving up the corporate ladder quickly, I love to ...

Ask anybody you know to try a little exercise involving sex. No no, not actual sexual exercise (though that is a good thing too), this one is a mental exercise. Ask that person to envision an average sexual encounter in their mind. Not a fantasy—depending on the person you might really want to avoid wading into that!—just an average, Wednesday ...

Oh those millennials! It seems you can’t go anywhere or read anything that doesn’t involve the plight or scourge (depending how you look at it) of those people born in the mid 1990s who are coming of age in the big bad world. Missing out? The thing is, they aren’t coming. Not in the colloquial, sexytime slang sense. While we bem...

Many people consider their workout to be a key part of their day. Whether it is by choice or necessity, maintaining physical health can make a difference in many different aspects of your life. Obviously, there is the body aspect. Better physical fitness with improve how you feel, give you more stamina and increase your quality of life. Working out...

Sometimes, you’ve just gotta have it. Whether you or your partner are the first to blink and initiate is entirely up to the situation you’re in, but I think everyone can agree that super spontaneous sex is a thrill like no other. What is a quickie? More commonly known as a quickie, heat of the moment sex can be exciting for a couple ...

Here’s a newsflash for anyone out there who still thinks shooting porn is nothing but glitz and glamour, fun and fucking. It isn’t just show up horny (because we all are, all the time, right?) and get down and dirty for raunchy good times. There is a lot to consider beforehand and one of those things is how you take care of yourself with a good...

Q: I have never experienced anything like this before. I’ve had a few girlfriends, had a lot of different kinds of sex. Some of it has even been pretty kinky! But I’ve never had a girl giggle when I do things to her. At first, it was kind of cute. Surprising, but still kind of cute. But I thought it was maybe just nervousness, since we’d just...

Language is a tricky thing, especially when it comes to sex. It can be hyper-specific and it can also be so vague as to be confusing. If you talk to people from different groups or in different regions, you’ll even find that sex can be broken down into different dialects and sub-sections. It really isn’t easy to navigate and ensure everyone in ...

I am not ashamed to admit that there are some things in this world that I just do not understand. I don’t get why people are so fascinated with “celebrities.” I cannot fathom why people eat casu marzu—the cheese with maggots in it. Nobody will ever be able to explain to me the appeal of watching football, the most boring game in the world. ...

One of the most important factors in determining whether your relationship is a flash in the sack or a good, long-haul fuck is compatibility. That almost indescribable connection that doesn’t just draw you to another person, but offers the potential for a lifelong connection. Sometimes, compatibility happens and sometimes it doesn’t. Sometim...

What would you do without your mobile phone? For so many of us, they are in our hands constantly, their glow putting sparkles in our eyes. And, of course, what gets read or seen on our mobiles often puts a little bit of a zip into what we have in our pants. Just as with any new technology, it didn’t take long for folks to figure out the best w...

We’ve all heard of doggie style, right? Well, are you ready for froggy style? Probably not. While the connections between human sexual behaviour and our friends in the animal kingdom can be very strong at times, the mating style particular to the Bombay night frog isn’t one that is likely to turn too many people into horny toads. Hor...