Articles Tagged With BDSM
Q: My husband and I are new to BDSM. We’ve been reading a lot about different types of toys and different types of sensations, but we’re not sure where to start. He is the one who wants to receive the pain and I will be the one giving it. This excites me, but I am unsure about what I should use. And I am a little bit afraid of hurting him. Just...
Amazing sex comes in many different flavours, from the sweetest vanilla to all-you-can-eat buffet. It is the rare person who is interested in only one type of sexytime meal, most of us will have different appetites for different moods. For those looking for samplers from a more adventurous menu, maybe you’ll be interested in taking a little taste...
It really seems like sex should be the most simple of life’s pleasures. It should be something delightful and easy, something that you and whomever you choose to play with enter into with care and consideration because you’re both trying to have a great and sexy time.
But, as with most things in life, sex is almost never that simple because ...
Swing sets aren’t just for schoolyards anymore! Nope, they can definitely be a part of anyone’s sexual playground. That is if you’re ready to move from a traditional swing and you’re ready to try a sex swing!
Sex swings are a fantastic addition to anyone’s pleasure chest. They come in number of different variations, from smaller contra...
There are so many types of porn out there, it really is pretty amazing. There are films and clips for every single type of sexual interest on this planet. Just as it is with Rule 32 of the internet, if someone has expressed a porny desire of any sort, someone else has captured that idea on film.
And this is really important. If we didn’t have ...
We all crave markers, signifiers, labels. We might not always like it when other people push those labels on us, but that’s a different story. Today we’re talking about a very specific type of sexual categorization that some folks find very useful in navigating toward the people they really want to be in a relationship with.
Have you ever he...
When people think about sex, the first space they envision is the bedroom. From early on, we are taught that sex happens in a bed, under covers, in the dark. But that is starting to change.
Now, this isn’t to say that there is anything wrong with having most or even all of your sex in the bedroom—not at all! Rather, instead of falling into t...
Ask anybody you know to try a little exercise involving sex. No no, not actual sexual exercise (though that is a good thing too), this one is a mental exercise. Ask that person to envision an average sexual encounter in their mind. Not a fantasy—depending on the person you might really want to avoid wading into that!—just an average, Wednesday ...
You like it rough. Your partner likes it rough. You like to take it. Your partner likes to dish it out. You wear your submissive status on your sleeve and your partner’s dominance is divine in their devious smile.
Sounds like a match made in BDSM heaven, right? Sound like you two are made for each other and the play and sex is going to be phen...
Symbolism is an important element in sex. There are some images that will instantly turn people on and make them want more and more. Things like fishnet stockings, stiletto heels, firefighters and many, many more. These iconic images represent both an ideal and a desire. They capture the essence of sexual thoughts just by appearing and can make us ...
One of the truly grating things in life is delay. Nobody likes it when plans change because of forces beyond our control. And definitely near the top of this list is flight delays or cancellations.
Whether you’re travelling for business or pleasure, sitting and an airport and hearing the dreaded announcement that your travel plans are in flux ...
Everybody knows that Beyonce song “Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It)”, right? It is all about making the commitment to a relationship if you’re really into it by using the most enduring symbol of connectedness—a wedding ring. Many cultures, particularly Western ones, use a wedding ring to signify the everlasting bond of wedded bliss (we’re...
One of the frustrating parts of long-term sexual relationships is when the sexy activities you love and enjoy get a little stale. This isn’t anybody’s fault, this isn’t because you become boring. But it is only natural that we find specific hot and heavy preferences and stick to them because they work. We have fun, we establish intimacy, we g...
Our five core senses play integral parts in our sexual experiences. Not all at once, and not all equally at times. Our senses of smell, taste and sound are not always the most needed during sexytimes, but they can play crucial roles at other moments. And for the most part, touch is fairly integral to sexual experience - unless you can fully embrace...
More people are discovering the world of BDSM than ever before. The wide range of sexual practices encompassed in this simple acronym (that stands for Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism) leaves much room for interpretation and unique experiences. And one of the most popular starting points when dipping your toes in this world is bondage.
It may...
Ever since Fifty Shades of Grey skyrocketed into bedrooms across the world, people have become more adventurous when it comes to exploring kink and BDSM. There were many different sexy scenes in the books that had people gasping and wondering. Some we’d never even heard of before!
Some of the most intriguing aspects were the implements of plea...
You can't deny that many different aspects of BDSM came crashing into the mainstream with the widespread success of Fifty Shades of Grey. Everybody's been talking about different forms of bondage, punishment and all manner of devices to reach great new potentials in our sex lives. And one of the most fantastic and sensual ways to begin your explora...
We all have little quirks and eccentricities - especially when it comes to sex. Everybody has preferences, specificities and special little thrills. For some, it is easy to get these as they come but not focus on them during most sexual encounters. For others, their individual sex needs can become powerful stimuli that must be engaged during most, ...
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