Taking The Rough Road To Pleasure

Amazing sex comes in many different flavours, from the sweetest vanilla to all-you-can-eat buffet. It is the rare person who is interested in only one type of sexytime meal, most of us will have different appetites for different moods. For those looking for samplers from a more adventurous menu, maybe you’ll be interested in taking a little taste of some rough sex.

Ever since the worldwide phenomena that was Fifty Shades Of Grey, the idea of taking sex to a new level has intrigued people and fueled many new fantasies. But rough sex can encompass a wide range of sexy fun that isn’t full-on BDSM. Rough sex can go from something quite simple to intricately elaborate. It is a very exciting and versatile way to play!

Here are some ideas to get a little dirty, a little nasty, a little rough—and have a whole lot of fun. But before we get into it, consent is paramount in rough sex play. Never start playing this way unless all partners have agreed in advance and all limits have been discussed.

Teasing

A great way to initiate rough sex plans with your partner is to start well before you actually get into a sexy situation. As you interact throughout the day, little things like a quick spank or a swat with a spatula can set the playful, naughty tone that rough sex can be built upon. You can also “pretend” to be sweet and affectionate by leaning in to whisper in your partner’s ear—and then tell them you’re going to fuck them/get fucked “sooooo hard” tonight.

Foreplay

Really, foreplay can be the main course of rough sex. This is where we use our hands, mouths, voices and brains to bring out the best in the situation. One great way to get rough sex going is to wrestle. Play wresting is very intimate, but it also gets the adrenaline flowing. Take turns trying to pin each other down, all the while fighting back with playful spanks, pinches, bites and more. All of that skin to skin contact and muscle exertion will get both of you pumped up. Foreplay is where you can also introduce rope, handcuffs, paddles, whips—there are so many great, sexy toys that can take the scene to super sexy levels of pleasure.

Intercourse

However you and your playmate(s) enjoy intercourse (if you do at all)—penis in vagina/ass/mouth or perhaps substituting a strap-on into that occasion, rough intercourse in characterized by two features: speed and strength. And in most cases, we’re talking about full-on fucking. The big three intercourse positions, while often sweet and romantic, also double as great rough sex positions—with some slight variations. For missionary, the one on their back can have their hands bound up at the headboard and their legs spread wide. The objective is wide access to enter them—plus a great visual. This also works when one person is being straddled. Again, tie them up and the rider can then push down on their chest, face or just bounce away with abandon. Of course, doggie style has often had a rough connotation to it and is great for rough sex. Add variations like spanking dat ass and hair-pulling to take things even further.

So, are you hungry for something a little spicy tonight?