Articles from April 2018

Do you remember participating in Easter egg hunts? If you didn’t get to enjoy this rite of passage you really missed out. Imagine a bunch of kids being let loose to scour every nook and cranny for decorated eggs. Sometimes it was good fun...sometimes it was barely organized chaos. In other words, Easter egg hunts are the exact opposite of how ...

Easter is approaching and who is that hopping down the bunny trail? Is it our favourite little furry friend with a big basket full of chocolate treats? Are you looking forward to the arrival of the Easter Bunny? Or would you rather a visit from a different kind of rabbit? Maybe one with a little more power than sugar and one that can give more p...

Wouldn’t it be just fabulous if we all grew up knowing, well, everything? Yes, yes, there are many valuable lessons to be learned through experiences and trial and error in life. Some will say these experiences are what shapes our personalities into the people what we become. But wouldn’t it be so much easier if we just knew what we were doi...

What you do imagine to be the perfect sexual experience? In your wildest fantasies, how do you think sex is supposed to “happen?” For most people, the most basic answer is something along the lines of a) Foreplay, b) Main events, c) Orgasm. That is a very general description, but if you follow the depictions created by mainstream (movies, te...

Have you ever heard someone exclaim “I’m just going to die if I don’t have sex soon!” Well, don’t believe them. Especially if that person happens to be a man. It ain’t happening. No matter how hard someone tries to convince you, they aren’t going to expire from a lack of erotic exercise. That said, we’re not saying that there are...

Have you ever stopped to think about the sexiness of words? It is often said that the brain is the sexiest part of the body, and I am not about to disagree. It is in our thoughts that the most delicious sexual thoughts emerge. We spend a lot more time having sex in our brains than we do with our bodies, and in all of that time certain words and phr...

Q: My husband and I are new to BDSM. We’ve been reading a lot about different types of toys and different types of sensations, but we’re not sure where to start. He is the one who wants to receive the pain and I will be the one giving it. This excites me, but I am unsure about what I should use. And I am a little bit afraid of hurting him. Just...

Let’s talk about one big problem we are still struggling with as an evolving sexual society. Well, two problems, but they are related. The overarching problem is casual sex. Through world history there have been various periods, across cultures, where casual sex was understood and accepted. Celebrated even. Let’s not kid ourselves into think...