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Handful, Mouthful, Moreful: How To Handle Big Dicks

Handful, Mouthful, Moreful: How To Handle Big Dicks

This may sound like some kind of fallacy since it really isn’t the type of thing we hear about every day, but it really is possible that you might encounter a penis that is just too big. I know, kinda sounds like we’re talking about the Loch Ness Monster or Bigfoot. But it is true, there are plenty of people out there who have cocks that exceed the accepted average of 5.2 inches.

And therein lies the problem. Average means more folks have dicks that are 5.2 inches and smaller. And that’s what we get used to playing with. That’s what our bodies are used to playing with. Frankly, that’s what our holes are used to accommodating.

Big cock’s aren’t unicorns

The funny thing is, we’re all pretty much conditioned to believe that large penises are mythical creatures. In fact many people will possibly never come across a cock that is longer than average. So when you do want to get down with a big dick, there is a good chance you just won’t know what to do with it. I mean, how exactly is it supposed to fit anywhere fun anyway?

And nobody would blame you if you suddenly reached in and found something the size of a baby’s arm and were surprised. Really, you were probably planning on putting that thing in your mouth or your vagina or your ass...but now what? Is it even going to work if you try and take on a monster?

Well, that will depend on your body. If you’re a small person, well, there’s a chance it won’t work at all. If you really want to play together, stick with a handjob and maybe whatever you can fit in your mouth. Sometimes some people just aren’t going to be able to connect physically, and that will really suck.

However, if you really think you want to try and take on the beast, there are some things you should know.

Foreplay is magic

First off, foreplay is not only great, it is absolutely necessary when playing with a big cock. Regardless where you’re planning to put that thing—mouth, vagina or anus, you and your partner with the monster need to spend a lot of time playing together and enjoying each other’s bodies. And don’t just stick to oral. Be sure to get some kinds of penetration happening, particularly if it is the ass or vagina you’re aiming for a big cock party. Get some fingers or toys in there to get your body adjusted to the pleasures soon to come. And not just a quick little in. Take some time to get your body ready!

Lube is your friend

The other key thing needed if you are planning on getting with a big boner is an essential everyone should have on hand for all kinds of sex: lube. Slippery liquid isn’t required just for giant cock play, it should be in your sexytime pleasure chest all the time. While you might not need it all the time, you will definitely need it if you take on a beast. Get yourself and your partner all slicked up, inside and out. And keep that lube on hand, you’ll definitely need to reapply throughout.

Finally, two simple words: Go Slow. There is no rush. If you go too fast, you’re likely to get hurt. However, taking your time will help your body adjust.

So, it isn’t impossible to take a big cock, but you do have to work at it. Just like all of the other great things in life!

About Jon Pressick
Jon Pressick

Jon Pressick is the sex community's international gadabout and Cherry Banana's writer in residence. An award-winning sex writer and blogger, Jon is the editor of the critically-acclaimed Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1. He is a frequent contributor to Cherry Banana with a range of sex-related content and his writing has appeared in numerous magazines and books, as well as all across the Internet. Jon is also a co-host and producer of the long-running sex radio show Sex City. You can keep up with his many sex-related articles here at Cherry Banana or at his own blog, Sex in Words.

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