Guide to Strap-On Vibrators
One of the most exciting developments in sex over the past few years has been the interest in strap-on sex. Men and women have been exploring the erotic potential of using a harness to give women the opportunity to experience sex from the other side. And usually, once she gets a taste for it, women want to be on top more and more. And since it feels amazing for both men and women receiving that action, it is highly encouraged.
Of course, there are always ways to take a good thing and make it even better. Strap-on sex often incorporates a dildo - but what if you want more? What if you want an extra sensation to go along with the penetration? Maybe it's time to make a new sexy leap to strap-on vibrators.
What is a strap-on vibrator?
A strap-on vibrator is a vibrating sex toy that is attached to a harness that a woman (and sometimes a man) can wear to penetrate another person. They come in many different shapes, sizes, textures and functions to suit a variety of sexual desires. Whether you’re looking for a pliable, bendable cock for your lover to enjoy, or a rippled and ridged version to stimulate all of those sexy spots, strap-on vibrators are varied enough to please anyone. They even come in different colours to live out all kinds of fantasies.
One key part of the strap-on vibrator is the harness. It is key that whoever is going to be wearing the toy finds the harness comfortable and well-fitting. If the harness doesn’t fit tight and secure, the vibrator won't be held securely in place. If the wearer is a woman, it is also good to look for a harness that places the end of the vibrator as close to her clit as possible. That way she’ll get the benefit of the vibrator's sensations as well!
It is also key that the vibrator you choose to couple with your harness for your sexy coupling has a base that is wide enough that it doesn’t slide through the hole of the harness. When you’re deep inside someone, the last thing you want is your cock to pop off!
As previously mentioned, strap-on vibrators are great for both men and women. There are some models that are hollow and slide over a man’s penis. This will give his partner new thrills as they feel a new “cock” penetrating them. Bigger, longer and better! At the same time, the guy is going to get the benefit of the vibrations on his penis! It's a win-win situation for all involved.
The most common types of strap-on vibrators are worn by women to either penetrate other women or men. Strap-on vibes are very popular with lesbian and bisexual women bringing a different type of play into the bedroom. Not only that, anal sex is becoming more and more popular among men who are understanding the significant pleasures that can be had from ass play. At the same time, women who do wear strap-on vibrators sometimes get off on the sensation of penetrating someone else and having the power of dominance at their fingertips.
What size strap-on vibrator is right for me?
The key to picking the best size strap-on vibrator is open communication with your partner. If you’re the one doing the penetrating then you have to ask your lover what size - length and girth - they prefer in their vagina or anus. Strap-on vibrators come in every size imaginable, from the width of your pinky finger to the diameter of your forearm. If you’re the one taking the strap-on, take some moments to consider what you want in you at that moment. Sometimes you might want smaller, other times you’ll be begging for something big.
What is pegging?
While men have enjoyed anal stimulation for as long as there have been people, it has often slipped into sexual taboo. Rampant homophobia has pushed men to forget all of the pleasure that can be found by knocking at their back door. Pegging is the act of a woman penetrating a man anally with a strap-on (and it gets even better when that strap-on is a vibrator!). In the past twenty years, men have slowly been rediscovering the joys of anal touch and breaking down the stigma associated with it. One of the major reasons for this is the prostate. Men can have unbelievable orgasms through prostate stimulation, with one of the best kinds coming from anal intercourse with a strap-on vibrator. The toy can rub their prostate just the right way - sometimes making them orgasm without any penis touch at all!
How do I use a strap-on vibrator?
Regardless of the penetration you’re performing, one of the keys to fantastic strap-on vibrator action is to ensure your partner is good and ready. This means ensuring he or she is all lubed up and raring to go. Particularly with anal play, there is no such thing as too much lube. If you think you’ve used enough, add some more just in case. If you’re going for some vaginal fun, it is still a good idea to add some supplementary lubrication, even if she is very wet.
Once everyone is good to go, ease the strap-on vibe into your partner. Because it is essentially a replica penis, it is hard to tell how your partner feels. Ensure the two of you keep up a good dialogue of your movement into them. The last thing you want to do is hurt them! With the strap-on vibrator securely placed in the harness, both of you will feel the vibes through the base of the cock. This will drive both of you wild with passion.
Depending on your preference, you can have sex with a strap-on vibrator in many different positions, but the two top ones are doggy style and missionary. Doggy lets you control the action and missionary provides that face-to-face connection. Missionary is great for those new to strap-on vibrators, while doggy style is awesome for those with a little more experience. By all means try a variety of sex positions and get creative with how and where you use your strap-on. After all, variety is the spice of life!
Okay, I'm ready to buy a strap-on vibrator, what next?
So you're ready to start enjoying the pleasures of a strap-on vibrator with your partner. Congratulations! We can just imagine the fun you're going to be having. If you want to buy your very own, you can explore our full range of strap-on vibes here: Buy a Strap-On Vibrator.
Need more help?
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