There is just something about having sex in public that drives some people wild. Is it the prospect of getting caught? The potential of being seen? The chance to get a little naughty and see your partner in a sexy way in a place you really shouldn’t?
Public sex can be a totally thrilling and hot way to spice things up in your relationship... but it can also be done very, very poorly. There is a big difference between having public sex and being a sexual public nuisance. There may be no truer instance of the words “discretion is the better part of valour” than when it comes to having sex out in the wild. Some of these folks who just couldn’t hold back are truly endangering others and that is a line you really don’t want to cross. Being seen by people? That’s not a big deal. When those others are children... you’re starting to cross lines.
Here, There, Everywhere!
The funny thing is, my personal opinion is that in an ideal world, we would be having sex in public, any time, any place. Because sex would be considered as it should be: a fun, safe, consensual act of joy and love or maybe just lust. Unfortunately, our society as it currently is would not be able to handle this romanticized world of hedonism. Men have been raised, for countless generations, to be predators of women and children - and this is the primary reason we all still live in fear of free expressions of sexuality.
So, we’re not in an ideal state, but this doesn’t mean we can’t have some sexytime fun in public, on the sly. There are many great ways to enjoy your parts, bits and pieces out and about without annoying others but still in a super hot way:
Cars: This may not be the most comfortable way to have sex, but it is still one of the most sexy ways to play in public. Ideally, the bigger the vehicle, the better, especially as we get older and aren’t quite as nimble. But falling into the backseat for a quickie on a road trip can be a great way to relieve some road rage!
Parks: If you like public sex, going al fresco in nature can be even better. There is something about the fresh air of a forest or park with trees that can bring out the most erotic sensations. Is it a harkening back to our past? You will definitely come and come alive with some forest fucking.
Club: This one isn’t easy, but if you can manage it, try to be very discreet. You will find no more intense sensation than hot sex on the dance floor. Sure, you could go off and more easily slip into a washroom stall, but just imagine the wild thrill of sliding your hand in your partner’s underwear and finding a hard cock or waiting vulva. Find the rhythm and hit that bass!
Along with these awesome spots to sex it up, there are some that should likely be avoided: the beach (sand gets everywhere), official offices and buildings (usually crawling with security) and someone else’s bed—unless they are aware you’re going to do it. That’s just manners!