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The Joys Of Pegging For Men

The Joys Of Pegging For Men

We live in a great time of sexual exploration. These days, people can discover and enjoy so many different types of activities—some that are just emerging, but also others that have been around for years, but maybe haven’t been clearly named. One of these amazing acts is pegging. Some might think that this delightful activity is a new thing that has become popular with the growing interest in strap-ons. However, people have been enjoying female-on-male pegging fun forever. And here’s how you can to!

What is pegging?

It is easy to confuse the two slightly different concepts of strap-on sex and pegging. In fact, for some, they do mean the same thing. However, for others, pegging does specifically refer to a man being anally-penetrated by a woman wearing a strap-on dildo. Sex is becoming very specific—which helps us all understand our different needs!

Pegging remains somewhat taboo because men are still afraid of having their asses pleasured. Two factors are at play: a fear of pain and a fear of stigma There are many articles you can look up that outline how to have pain-free anal sex. And as for the stigma? This is something we just need to keep working on as a society. So here’s a nice, succinct statement: fellas can take it up the bum and still be just as manly as they were before they had a huge orgasm through anal stimulation. How’s that?

Now, let’s get down to the nitty gritty. One of the key steps to making your pegging adventure a good time for all is by finding the perfect strap-on harness for her. To fuck her man’s ass, a woman’s harness has to fit right, to then hold the dildo in place. A loose fitting harness will leave the dildo prone to falling out, which can be surprising and unpleasant.

Lube is key

Once you’re strapped into place, get that lube bottle handy. As in, keep some lube in each of your hands so that everybody is ready to spread some slickness at any moment. The fella needs plenty of warming up and anal relaxing in the early stages of bum fun, so ensure that plenty of lube is coating his ass, cheeks and into his anal cavity. Remember, pain is still a big fear of guys, and surely, there will be instances of discomfort, but if he can tolerate these enough, the pleasures will far outweigh the pain as he learned to take a dildo with it happening.

There are many hot ways to enjoy hot pegging action, but for beginners, there are two that stand out and the most likely to ensure a great time. For a guy’s first time, he should try straddling her. In this position, he can lower himself down onto her cock at his own pace. The anus also opens quite nicely in this position. It will also give her some experience learning to thrust into him.

The other great pegging position, for those with a bit more experience, is missionary—with him on his back. In this position, particularly if he can raise his legs, the dildo will rub up against his prostate with each of her thrusts. And this is where magic is going to happen!

Pegging is on the scene and one of the hottest acts a couple can share!

About Jon Pressick
Jon Pressick

Jon Pressick is the sex community's international gadabout and Cherry Banana's writer in residence. An award-winning sex writer and blogger, Jon is the editor of the critically-acclaimed Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1. He is a frequent contributor to Cherry Banana with a range of sex-related content and his writing has appeared in numerous magazines and books, as well as all across the Internet. Jon is also a co-host and producer of the long-running sex radio show Sex City. You can keep up with his many sex-related articles here at Cherry Banana or at his own blog, Sex in Words.

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