Cherry Banana Blog
Enjoy the Cherry Banana blog, filled with sex tips and advice straight from Cherry Banana HQ! We post fresh content on a regular basis that you can use to enhance all aspects of your sex life. Try new sex positions, learn new sex definitions or read some articles.
I am really not sure. Is this an easier time to figure out dating and sex...or is it actually harder? Back in the day there was this supposed rule that people didn’t have sex on the first date. Well, ...
Isn’t it funny that the things that often kickstarts and begins our sexual lives is often something that gets forgotten when other, more involved, activities come along. At the same time, many people ...
Wouldn’t it be interesting to know the precise moment when everything went all downhill for men in terms of positive sexual expression? Was there a specific incident? Did somebody, somewhere along the...
Term Of The Day
Teabagging is the act of lowering or placing one’s scrotum and testicles into another person’s mouth. Movement up and down and in and out of the mouth...
Latest Question
Q: I have a secret desire that I’ve never been comfortable telling anybody about, mostly because I’m a man. I’ve never been comfortable enough to tell...
Latest Articles
I have always admired and been amazed by those just seem to exude sexual confidence. You see these folks everywhere. They’re able to mingle and chat, put people at ease or create a delicious tension. Sexually confident people never have trouble meeting new people, picking up and then, if it suits their fancy, moving on. But not even in a bad, jer...
Our five core senses play integral parts in our sexual experiences. Not all at once, and not all equally at times. Our senses of smell, taste and sound are not always the most needed during sexytimes, but they can play crucial roles at other moments. And for the most part, touch is fairly integral to sexual experience - unless you can fully embrace...
We’ve all been there. Whether alone or with a partner or even a whole group, we’ve all done something completely and undeniably awkward during sex. And we’re not talking a misplaced finger or an unfortunate sound (farts won’t make the cut here, everybody has farted during sex). Truly awkward sex moments can define your day, month or even ye...
Q: Why does everybody have better luck than me on dating sites? Seriously! I have profiles on several different websites and I barely get any messages back. I go through sites and try to make contact but rarely does anybody ever respond. I’m a decent looking guy and profile is a straight-up account of what I am like as a person. I’ve always hea...
Many people believe great sex should always begin with a kiss. Why then are so many people a little deficient in this simple skill?
Because it isn’t a simple skill!
Is a kiss just a kiss?
Kissing is something for which we all have a unique style and technique. Some people are light peckers and others are sloppy open-mouthers. W...
Every year is remembered for certain milestones and phenomena in the sex and dating scene. A few years ago Fifty Shades of Grey had us all bound, and polyamory has certainly enjoyed the attention of many. While there were many other memorable social elements of 2016, the most pervasive might have been the concept of ghosting.
Let’s say you’r...
The results of Nexus’ recent survey on prostate health and sexual pleasure are in, and there are some surprising findings. It is important to conduct this kind of research to learn what both men and women know and understand about the prostate, a long-misunderstood part of men’s anatomy.
Having a happy, healthy prostate is key to men’s hea...
The start of a new year can mean so many things to different people. New starts and adventures. Changing things from times previous. Even a continuing of all that is going right and maintaining the status quo.
Here we look at the new year as an opportunity to think about sex! Okay, every day is a good day to think about sex, but the new year can...
There is just something about having sex in public that drives some people wild. Is it the prospect of getting caught? The potential of being seen? The chance to get a little naughty and see your partner in a sexy way in a place you really shouldn’t?
Public sex can be a totally thrilling and hot way to spice things up in your relationship... b...
Q: I am worried that I am ruining my relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I love being with my wife. We have great times together and we do have fantastic sex. I’ve never cheated on her and I have no intention of ever doing that. But, I can’t stop fantasizing about sex with other people. When we’re having sex and when we’re not having sex, I...
Passion is a hallmark of great sex, there’s no denying that. We’ve all had moments of rushing bodies together, a tempest of lust and movement where we have to get our hands on our partner as quickly as possible. Lips come together in a desperate need, clothes fly off as if taken by a tornado and the sex is explosive!
This fueled and fiery se...
Sometimes relationships just don’t work out. Whether the split is amicable or not, it is important to realize when it is time to move along to, hopefully something better. It might suck, but c’est la vie.
However, you have created an intimacy with this person and even if you don’t really like each other anymore, those intimate feelings can...
Do you remember the different “bases” of sexual experience? First base is kissing and groping, third is oral pleasure and intercourse is a home run. But what of second base? That progression in the sexual journey is fingering! Hands below the belt. And can you remember the first time your hands went down there? Remember what an amazing sen...
There used to be an odd situation in the world of sex toys. It is widely recognized that men are the primary purchases of sexual products, but there weren’t always a significant number of sex toys directly targeted to men. That is to say, there weren’t that many toys that were made to be used specifically on men’s penises. Of course, this isn...
Q: Would you believe I was recently asked if I did anal on a first date! I couldn’t believe this guy I’d just met online thought this would be ok to ask. Really? We hadn’t actually started anything, but I was pretty shocked. Am I crazy for thinking that anal is NOT a first date thing? I am a little older (42), but this just seems a little ext...
Whether you’ve just brought home someone new or want to impress your long-term squeeze, the right body-rockin’ playlist can definitely set the tone of sexy things to come. Are you looking for fun and playful or down and dirty? A nice slow groove or raunchy and racy? Sexy music gives you and your partner lots of options to explore - you might ev...
Let’s pretend you like to look at sexy photos. I know, I know, that might be a stretch, I mean, who in the world would possibly want to look at beautiful people dressed in skimpy outfits? Okay, so, probably ALL of us want to look at hot folks in next to nothing!
But now, think about the types of sexy images you do look at. Who do you see posin...
Creating a new relationship is always fraught with challenges and excitement. Newfound love and lust can be such a driving force that other factors might be conveniently pushed to the periphery as good times and great sex take precedence.
But eventually, your little differences are going to catch up and become something that needs to be discusse...
It is an important time for sexual health in mainstream media. With Charlie Sheen’s recent announcement that he is living with HIV, the world has, arguably, its most notable, living figure on which to ponder the meaning of such a medical diagnosis. Sure, there have been other celebrities just as big as Sheen that have been noted to live with HIV,...
There are definitely some things you should not do on a first date:
Don’t make racist comments (well, don’t do that ever)
Don’t make your exes sound like saints on earth you’d crawl back to in an instant
Don’t suggest fisting as an icebreaker
Okay, there are many different sexual activities that could fall into that number ...
