Articles Tagged With Kinky

Q: My husband and I are new to BDSM. We’ve been reading a lot about different types of toys and different types of sensations, but we’re not sure where to start. He is the one who wants to receive the pain and I will be the one giving it. This excites me, but I am unsure about what I should use. And I am a little bit afraid of hurting him. Just...

So, ya wanna be in pictures, do you? You wanna be star, eh? Oh yes, we can make you a star...the shiniest, sexiest star of them all! The democratization of technology has made so many sexual adventures possible. We can do things now, on a whim, that we just couldn’t do 10 to 20 years ago. Sex robots, haptic technology, distance-bridging sex to...

Q: I am really confused. My husband and I have a fantastic sex life. If you read all of the statistics in women’s magazines like I do, you’ll know that our 4-5 times per week is far above average for people our age. We’ve been together for 15 years, married for 14. We knew we were perfect together right from the start and sex was one of the f...

Q: I have tried and tried and tried and I don’t know what I am doing wrong. I want to squirt! My boyfriend wants me to squirt! It looks so hot and he really wants to get covered in my juice, but I can’t make it happen. What are we doing wrong? A: There is no denying that squirting, or ejaculating, has certainly become one of the most so...

It really seems like sex should be the most simple of life’s pleasures. It should be something delightful and easy, something that you and whomever you choose to play with enter into with care and consideration because you’re both trying to have a great and sexy time. But, as with most things in life, sex is almost never that simple because ...

Swing sets aren’t just for schoolyards anymore! Nope, they can definitely be a part of anyone’s sexual playground. That is if you’re ready to move from a traditional swing and you’re ready to try a sex swing! Sex swings are a fantastic addition to anyone’s pleasure chest. They come in number of different variations, from smaller contra...

Imagine a room full of the sexiest people you know. Music plays and people laugh. They touch, they kiss and eventually, bit by bit, clothes start to come off. Skin is exposed and laughter turns into moans. And gasps and shrieks of joy. The aroma of sex fills the room as people partner up, or, perhaps, form their own groups. Sucking, licking, fuckin...

There are so many types of porn out there, it really is pretty amazing. There are films and clips for every single type of sexual interest on this planet. Just as it is with Rule 32 of the internet, if someone has expressed a porny desire of any sort, someone else has captured that idea on film. And this is really important. If we didn’t have ...

Having fun in the bedroom is not just about your satisfaction but your partner’s as well. One-way pleasure is no way to make things enjoyable. Does your partner have a hidden kink or a sexual desire that they have thought about for a long time? Perhaps they fancy visiting the best strip club in town? Why don’t you give them this pleasure by ...

In recent years many different sex acts have come under greater scrutiny for what they mean to different people. Many sex acts are highly controversial and cause different feelings in different folks. There is a popular phrase around sex community circles that says “don’t yuck my yum.” This means, generally, that while you may not be a fan of...

What would you do without your mobile phone? For so many of us, they are in our hands constantly, their glow putting sparkles in our eyes. And, of course, what gets read or seen on our mobiles often puts a little bit of a zip into what we have in our pants. Just as with any new technology, it didn’t take long for folks to figure out the best w...

Q: My girlfriend and I have been in a committed relationship for over 10 years. We did the whole stereotypical lesbian thing: we met, we moved in, we got cats. Over that time we’ve had a very good relationship with very few issues of concerns. And we’ve had great sex! We are open and enjoy many things about each other’s bodies. But we have be...

There is no denying that many people are helped by having strong, communicative relationships with therapists. All throughout history people have had confidantes, friends and co-workers with whom we could confide and share personal issues with. But has that been enough? In the 20th century, the idea of taking time to speak with a person trained ...

For some folks, sex is a pretty cut and dried concept. They like penetration, they like orgasms, they like pleasure that could generally be described as “normal.” Vulvas, breasts, penises and skin. This is what gets them off and that it great. Others though derive pleasure from other, more diverse, bodily expressions. These instances are mor...

This may be a shocking revelation to everyone (or not), but our bodies are really sensitive! I know, right? We can feel numerous different types of sensation across our skin and deeper. Curiously though, despite this tremendous potential, we aren’t all taking advantage of what our bodies can feel during sex. Instead we typically rely on the old s...

Have you ever been outside on a lovely summer night, laying in the grass with your lover, looking up at the stars and wondered “Where will my cum go if I blow a load in space?” Well, certainly that isn’t the only question that would come to mind. I’m sure you’d be pondering positions and thrusting and what boobs and balls would look li...

Symbolism is an important element in sex. There are some images that will instantly turn people on and make them want more and more. Things like fishnet stockings, stiletto heels, firefighters and many, many more. These iconic images represent both an ideal and a desire. They capture the essence of sexual thoughts just by appearing and can make us ...

One of the most hot and steamy types of sex often depicted in movies and on television is, literally, hot and steamy! And rightfully so! Getting with your partner under the warm, rushing current of a shower can be one of the most intimate and sexy things you can do. Shower sex is presented all the time for a reason - it looks amazing! However, a...

One of the most common abilities on sexual wishlists is the desire for sex to last longer. Everybody wants those amazing feelings to continue for as long as possible, but once some hot and heavy action starts, it can be irresistible to stop the flood of sexy sensation. And then it is done and your body comes down and you usually have to wait a whil...

It seems that everything about sex starts, continues and ends with the discussion of orgasm. In that, orgasm is the true pinnacle of sexual happiness and satisfaction. Well, wait, let’s back that up a bit. Male orgasm is the true pinnacle of sexual happiness, with female orgasm more like a really nice to have if you can manage it. Of course th...

One of the truly grating things in life is delay. Nobody likes it when plans change because of forces beyond our control. And definitely near the top of this list is flight delays or cancellations. Whether you’re travelling for business or pleasure, sitting and an airport and hearing the dreaded announcement that your travel plans are in flux ...

One of the frustrating parts of long-term sexual relationships is when the sexy activities you love and enjoy get a little stale. This isn’t anybody’s fault, this isn’t because you become boring. But it is only natural that we find specific hot and heavy preferences and stick to them because they work. We have fun, we establish intimacy, we g...

There are many ways to light a new fire in your sex life—one of the most intriguing being, literally, lighting a little fire! Candles have long been associated with sex as a means of setting a sexy mood in the before some sexytime shenanigans. However, with the right type of candles, your intimate moments can definitely heat up! Playing with h...

Our five core senses play integral parts in our sexual experiences. Not all at once, and not all equally at times. Our senses of smell, taste and sound are not always the most needed during sexytimes, but they can play crucial roles at other moments. And for the most part, touch is fairly integral to sexual experience - unless you can fully embrace...

The start of a new year can mean so many things to different people. New starts and adventures. Changing things from times previous. Even a continuing of all that is going right and maintaining the status quo. Here we look at the new year as an opportunity to think about sex! Okay, every day is a good day to think about sex, but the new year can...

There is just something about having sex in public that drives some people wild. Is it the prospect of getting caught? The potential of being seen? The chance to get a little naughty and see your partner in a sexy way in a place you really shouldn’t? Public sex can be a totally thrilling and hot way to spice things up in your relationship... b...

There are definitely some things you should not do on a first date: Don’t make racist comments (well, don’t do that ever) Don’t make your exes sound like saints on earth you’d crawl back to in an instant Don’t suggest fisting as an icebreaker Okay, there are many different sexual activities that could fall into that number ...

For many people, it is hard to move past the nuts and bolts of sex. You’ve gotten into a relationship, you’re both wildly passionate... but it is easy, after a while, to fall into a rut of sexual monotony. Same positions, same locations, same old, same old. One of the easiest, but most underestimated ways to break out of a bedroom slump is t...

Now, you've read Anal Sex Tips: Part 1 and Anal Sex Tips: Part 2, and this is what you’ve been waiting for, the main anal course. If you have followed the suggestions laid out in first two parts of this guide to anal sex, you and your partner are sure to be hot and ready for more. And that more is full-on, all-lubed, hard and ready anal sex. I...

More people are discovering the world of BDSM than ever before. The wide range of sexual practices encompassed in this simple acronym (that stands for Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism) leaves much room for interpretation and unique experiences. And one of the most popular starting points when dipping your toes in this world is bondage. It may...

It seems you can’t go a day without some kind of sex advice article giving you the top ten ways to spice things up in your relationship. And one of those list items is usually to take your sexytimes out of the bedroom. But I can’t imagine they’re referring to intergalactic intercourse! Many of us have grown up on science fiction and fan...

Ever since Fifty Shades of Grey skyrocketed into bedrooms across the world, people have become more adventurous when it comes to exploring kink and BDSM. There were many different sexy scenes in the books that had people gasping and wondering. Some we’d never even heard of before! Some of the most intriguing aspects were the implements of plea...

Last time, in Anal Sex Tips: Part 1, we got you all wet and ready to take you to the next step of anal fun. You've relaxed, played, touched and licked. If you're on the receiving end you're probably wiggling and writhing in pleasure and wondering "what next and when?" Well let's just pause for a second. Remember, if this is super-hot for you and...

Q: "I lead a very out, kinky lifestyle everywhere - except work. I am into the leather community, I am polyamorous and I am bisexual. I frequent sex parties and different sex events, many of which are fundraisers. But I am not at all out at my place of work. Which can be very challenging when my co-workers ask about my weekend, my family, my intere...

New relationships are just awesome! That beginning time, when your hands are all over each other, when you can think of nothing more than that person and the sexy times you’re going to have. It can be so hot and so intense! At the same time, it is easy to fall into thoughts and fears during this time. We all experience insecurities and worries...

For some it is still taboo. For others, it is an everyday part of fantastic sex. Anal sex is a polarizing sexual subject - you either love it or hate it. Chances are, if you love it you have gotten over some of the difficulties often associated with bum lovin'. If you hate it, you've likely had a bad experience or can't get your mind past inaccurat...

It may seem like a new craze, but exploring different relationship structures has happened throughout history and across cultures. The current Western model of emotional and sexual monogamy tied to love is actually a relatively new version of coupling, despite its prevalence. But these days many people are questioning the predominance of monogamy a...

You can't deny that many different aspects of BDSM came crashing into the mainstream with the widespread success of Fifty Shades of Grey. Everybody's been talking about different forms of bondage, punishment and all manner of devices to reach great new potentials in our sex lives. And one of the most fantastic and sensual ways to begin your explora...

One of the biggest, boldest steps you can take to spice up your sex life is to step out. No, no, not cheating! Step out of your bedroom and step right out of your house to partake in a little public hanky panky. When you think about it, people weren’t always behind closed doors and curtains during intimate times. When we didn’t have houses, ...

We all have little quirks and eccentricities - especially when it comes to sex. Everybody has preferences, specificities and special little thrills. For some, it is easy to get these as they come but not focus on them during most sexual encounters. For others, their individual sex needs can become powerful stimuli that must be engaged during most, ...